“One second can change someone’s life and for me this is enormous”
I was originally educated as an economist and had most of my education in Romania. My career was chosen by my mother and by my circumstances. When I came to the UK 13 years ago, I saw it as a reset button to chose whoever I wanted to be. I found comfort in numbers, but I wanted something more and I was really interested in the world of mental health. I took my Nursing Associate training exam and passed.
Having had experience of domestic violence, there were books to support me but no specialist help. I believe my past experiences make me more empathetic to my patients. Initially I was a domestic worker in a mental health unit and spoke with patients in that role. I grasped the opportunity to make a change in my life and do something meaningful and became a Nursing Associate. That was 10 years ago.
“We are often the first and a continuous point of contact for patients”
Despite being underpaid for the skills we bring, it is a really rewarding job. Do have a look at the work the RCN is doing to fight for Fair Pay for Nursing Support Workers. Nursing support workers support patients, some at their lowest point psychologically and physically. We are often the first and a continuous point of contact for patients.
“We are key members of the nursing family and we should make sure our voices are heard.”
I became involved with the RCN because I am passionate about highlighting the importance of nursing support workers. We are key members of the nursing family and we should make sure our voices are heard.
- Find extensive information on the RCN domestic abuse resource page. It includes guidance on how to support those affected by domestic abuse, a risk assessment pathway to identify abuse, and links to organisations who can provide support and guidance.
- RCN members can talk one of our counsellors free of charge. Find out more about RCN counselling services.
- is a 24-hour confidential helpline run by Refuge where you can talk anonymously and ask for general information, advice and guidance: 0808 2000 247.
